For some people
this comes as a sudden conversion. For others, a curiosity
about God or about the person of Jesus grows into a gradual
awareness of his presence and an increasing conviction that
he demands some sort of personal commitment. They feel the
need to express that commitment by joining a worshipping
community of the Church.
Some people follow
a slightly different path. They get involved with their
friends or their children in the social activities of their
local church without having much interest in what the Church
is really for. They enjoy the friendship of Christian people
and get interested in the Church for its own sake. Gradually,
they, too, want to belong.
If you find yourself
in this position, what should you do?
The
first steps
Talk to your Christian
friends or to Christians you know and trust. Go to church
- with a friend if possible - and choose the main Sunday
service. At many churches, the congregation gathers for
a cup of tea or coffee afterwards and newcomers are welcomed.
This is a chance to meet other members of the congregation
and to introduce yourself informally to the clergy.
There is no shortage
of books to read about the Christian faith and the Church.
There is a short official summary called The Revised Catechism,
published as a small booklet. You will find other useful
books on church bookstalls and the leaflets in this series
will also be helpful.
Were
you baptised?
Many people were baptised (christened) as a baby but have
had little contact with the Church since. Baptism is, nevertheless,
permanent and cannot be cancelled or repeated. So, if you
were baptised as a baby, in whatever church that took place,
you are still baptised and you cannot be baptised again.
Some people do
not know whether they have been baptised or not. It is important
to find out from parents or older relatives and to discover
where it took place, because you may need to obtain a baptismal
certificate.
From
another denomination?
If you are a Christian from another denomination and feel
drawn towards joining the Church of England, the way this
is done will depend partly on your present denomination.
If you have been baptised, and confirmed by a bishop, in
another denomination then, after a period of preparation,
you will be received into the Church of England, probably
by a bishop during a confirmation
service. If you have not been confirmed, or even baptised,
then you will be prepared for this along with other candidates.
Christian
initiation
If you have not been baptised, that is the place to start.
In the early
days of the Church, new Christians were often baptised at
Easter. After a course of instruction in the faith, they
publicly entered into a new life. They repented of their
sins, were assured of God's forgiveness and were baptised,
often in a river. This was a symbol that they had died to
their old life and, born again, been given a share in the
Holy Spirit who came on Jesus at his baptism and, after
his resurrection, was given to his disciples.
Generally, in
the early Christian centuries, those who joined the Church
were not only baptised with water: the bishop also laid
his hands on them in blessing, a rite which later developed
into what we know as confirmation.
Admission to the Church was completed by their receiving
Holy Communion for the first time.
Baptism, confirmation
and first communion still form the pattern today. Some churches
still receive their new adult members at Easter.
Adult
baptism
If you begin to feel you want to be received into the Church,
discuss it with the vicar or one of the parish clergy. They
will probably suggest that you be prepared for baptism and
confirmation at the same time and that you join a confirmation
class.
Every parish
runs an informal course for its confirmation candidates,
usually one for adults and one for young people. Sometimes,
adult candidates are prepared individually.
You will normally
be confirmed at the same service in which you are baptised.
In most churches
a baptism takes place at the font, where water will be poured
over your head. Some churches have facilities for baptising
people by immersion.
You will be asked
to make the promises of baptism, repenting of your sins
and turning to Christ. You must declare before God that
you accept the Christian faith. The priest who baptises
you will call you by your name and then use the words based
on Holy Scripture: 'I baptise you in the name of the Father
and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.'
The baptism of
adults is normally followed immediately by confirmation
and first communion.